Haha mine is dating someone else and regularly sends me snaps of their dates feelsamazingman
Man it was painful to even read this.
I'm so deep in the friend zone I've met her boyfriend's parents.
Fuck his dad for revenge
c u c k e d
Same... Everytime she sends me a snap with her and him with the caption "I love this boy" it makes me want to shoot myself in the forehead.
Try to get her out of your life man. Nobody is worth that much. Find the next one. The only thing keeping me alive is the rage against my enemies.
You're probably right... But I can't just give up now. I'm going to wait just a little longer. She is like the girl of my dreams.
But don't do dumb shit if things don't work out you knucklehead.
Aww fuck. She just invited me to a skating rank and I asked who else was going. She said her boyfriend and this one guy I hate.
Man block that bitch. Otherwise shell ruin you
Yeah, have some self-respect
G o o d o n e
If OP is like me, they have no one else to talk to
Aye fr fr if anyone for female pulling advice hmu
hahah mine said she really liked me and we were going to start dating but lmao she got another boyfriend and here we are 5 months later ilovemylifesomuch
My crush called me beautiful twice and held me super tightly during this one movie but my self esteem was so low I never asked them out because even after that I still doubted anyone could like me so I mentioned I had a crush on a guy to clue them in but I think they took it as another guy since I was ok telling them and now boom he’s dating someone else
are you two still close friends? if you are theres still a great chance he’s still into you!
(at least this is what i tell myself bc me and that girl i was talking about are still great friends)
I've been there, and it ruined me. I haven't seen her in a few months and my life has been getting better, slowly off course but better.
That haha is so forced and painful. Sorry bro.
Unadd them? ): sorry dude
Why do they do this?
Don't put up with that shit. I'm guessing you haven't told her how you feel but just be like "damn girl rub it in much?" Implying it sucks seeing that shit cause you're single.
Move on man. It's not worth it and your situation will not change.
This isn't a movie lmao what girl would date a loser who ditched another girl at the blink of an eye
a lot actually
Not really, they're people as well with feelings. You act like an ass or if they act like an ass why would you want to be around someone so toxic?
Yeah ik they're people with feelings but that doesn't mean a girl wouldn't get with a guy because he left another girl for her. That shit happens all the time. I mean have you never heard of girls trying to take another girls man?
It's not as common as you think. Yeah, it happens, but if you see happening a lot then disassociate yourself from that person.
Ok well that's still my point. It happens with enough frequency to be noticeable. My original reply was to question the poster above me's incredulity.
Don't have that thought, man. For every asshole girl out there there is an asshole guy. Don't cloud your judgment because then you're going to have the thought that they're just going to leave you for someone else, causing you to be insecure then problems will arise.
Thanks for the kind words but I know I don't think women are especially assholes. I responded the way I did because I felt like the guy above me was doing that thing where women are these special creatures who're totally above choosing the selfish option. I think women are just people which is precisely why I don't trust them or men or anyone else to not chose the best option available to them even if choosing that option is selfish or potentially hurtful. But I still see what you're saying dude. Yeah, this level of distrust is definitely toxic.
Is...this other girl in on your system, or do you just not care if she feels exactly the way you did before you started hanging out with her?
That's if he's actually telling the truth and even has a girl to even talk to
I just use the DENNIS system.
This sounds like something straight out of /r/incels
Fuck, shit like this brings back all those memories from middle school that I suppressed for 5 years
it's okay you can share we won't judge :o
when you see happy people being happy with other happy people and you know you'll never deserve or have that
I fuck no man. I am straight. Well... I fuck no woman either. I fuck nobody, except myself.
That sounds so dramatic... what is it that you've done that makes you not deserve something as simple as contact with another person?
Nothing most likely.
For me, it's just that when you feel like shit, your mind tries to find a reason why you feel like shit. So it tells you that you probably did something wrong to deserve the pain you're in.
I've always think to myself that I am a horrible person even though I'd give homeless people money every time I encounter one begging.
It's not too bad of a mindset, as long as it doesn't cripple you. It's easier to slip when you think yourself to be one of the "good guys." More important - in my opinion - is would you give money to you, if you were begging?
Really? I didn't know. Some of them say "they're only concerned with my sadness for their own selfish reasons"...
Aren't some depressed people delusional? Not that they don't need help, of course. But some just seem to do it to themselves. Those that don't have medical per-disposition because of hormones or such, I mean.
"they're only concerned with my sadness for their own selfish reasons"...
That ties in with a lack of self-worth. i.e. "I'm a gigantic pile of human garbage. Why would anyone want to help me? I'm shit. I'm nothing but shit. Why should anyone do anything for me? I don't deserve anything and everyone knows it. The only reason anyone would bother to help me is because they want something, don't they?"
Aren't some depressed people delusional?
Depends on your definition of delusional. DSM-5 describes delusion as "false beliefs based on incorrect inference about external reality that persist despite the evidence to the contrary." In my example, I truly believe I'm the worst for no real reason. I'm aware that's not true (I don't eat babies or anything), but I can't help but believe it. Would that make me delusional?
If I can't pick up signs of people flirting with me what makes you think I can see them flirt with others?
You can, it’s just that nobody flirts with us
That's the fate we get boys
It’s ok we got porn, beer, and video games
Those are the only things that keep us going
But they only keep you going for so long...
Sometimes I pick it up but I make it awkward because I don't know how to respond
entirely too relatable
Also: When your crush has a significant other
Even more so: when your crush was your significant other
The big hurt
What's it like to be in space?
idk, personally I'm happy if someone I have a crush on is happy. I mean, better they date someone who isn't human garbage.
Same. I still hate it, but at the same time, definitely better for them. So I'm kinda happy and wanting to hit something at the same time.
Man life in middle school sucked
Life still sucks, but it used to as well
Stolen from shitpostbot 5000
*when your crush gets a bf after you two been talking for a year and then she blocks you
This, happend to you?
Unfortunately yes. I think it’s one of the reasons I ended up with depression
Well I'm just super awkward so I just end up ghosting girls, feel ya.
That was year ago and yet it hurts like it happened yesterday
Girl I had been talking to for the past couple weeks just announced she's pregnant so that's how my love life has been going
Mfw when my crush tells me about this woman he is deeply in love with.
Yep, even the sea can't help you when you burn like this.
Currently competing with a guy I’ve never even met for my crush
It’s not worth it my man. How old are you? Pretty young right? Be with people that want to be with you. They shouldn’t need convincing
Be with people that want to be with you.
Yeah I mean at this point there’s a lot of backstory I’d rather not get into but I’m not breaking my back for her or anything.
shitpostbot5000 repost lul
This fish looks like tyler the creator a lot.
isn't this shitpostbot5000?
Or when your crush tells you all about last night's escapades...
reasons to live
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