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Slav Man Bear Eater
19 days ago
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HELLO!

We've recently noticed an influx of questions starting with "what do you think of" followed by absolutely anything.

And by "we" I mean me and by "recently" I mean LITERALLY ALWAYS. From now on, questions that start with "what do you think of" falls under frequently asked and all of them will be send to gulag.

the one and only answer to the question "What do you think of this/that/him/her/men/women/women with a bit of fat/women with no fat/people who use apostrophes in plural/men who drink/men who don't drink/a 18 year old virgin/a 20 year old virgin/a guy who hasn't had sex yet/a guy who hasn't kissed anyone yet/a guy who is literally dead/The downfall of the Soviet Union/guys with short dicks/guys with long dicks/girls with small boobs/girls with big boobs/the death of Josip Broz and dissolution of Yugoslavia/women who use sex toys/women who don't etc etc ETC"

is "nobody cares" but after that, "SOME LIKE IT AND SOME DON'T". The one and only answer possible, ever.

As such, there is absolutely NO POINT in posting these questions.

From now on, these kind of questions will be treated as Frequently asked, and maybe also as a yes/no question and WILL BE REMOVED by automoderator. In case you think your question still has any kind of merit, feel free to message the moderators about it.

EDIT: As per popular demand questions starting with "how do you feel about" and "What are your thoughts on" are also banned since they are the exact same thing. Such is the wish of the proletariat!

Thank you and have a nice day

до свидания мои друзья.

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3 days ago
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The votes are in and the book for October is Storm of Steel by Ernst Jünger:

A memoir of astonishing power, savagery and ashen lyricism, Storm of Steel depicts Ernst Jünger's experience of combat on the front line - leading raiding parties, defending trenches against murderous British incursions, and simply enduring as shells tore his comrades apart. One of the greatest books to emerge from the catastrophe of the First World War, it illuminates like no other book not only the horrors but also the fascination of a war that made men keep fighting for four long years.

The first discussion thread for it will be on Monday the 1st October. The final discussion thread for Casino Royale will be next Monday.

I'm deciding between another fiction book for November or a popular science /"sociological" book. If any of you have any reasons to go one way or the other please post them. I'm very interested to see what type of book you think we should read next.

Lastly, you may also use this thread for any other feedback you have about the club, ideas you have etc.

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Rather than strong or handsome

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F.T.W.W.W.
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I have no clue, all i know is not in the gym.

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Posted by
20 years in a row without dying
15 hours ago

I remember I went to the Zoo and I saw a tiger for the first time. Holy fuck. I had a nightmare a couple nights ago, that I was walking down my street to my house and about 20 feet way from me was a Tiger in the hunting position (down and focused on its prey). Like literally you have no escape in that situation unless you break a car window and hope you can hide under a seat. I can handle spiders, heights and the dark, but I'll never get over my fear of a apex predator like a Tiger or Lion.

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Want to find out for myself. Had been basically texting a guy but life was in the way (work, end of summer plans and family) so I came off uninterested. Things have finally slowed down and I have been trying to reach out but seems like he might have moved on. I realize it was my fault so I have been putting effort into it to show that I am interested. I don't mind coming off interested but worried it might be clingy.

He was also always a shitty texter (i.e. cannot at all understand how to converse on text. Got hit with one word to one line at the most but I knew he was interested back then because he would ask me out and check in to say hi)

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I'm 23 year old, divorced father with a beautiful 2 year old daughter. Between working an 8-5 M-F and having my daughter every other night I don't meet new friends cause I don't leave the house very often aside from work. Anyone got advice on how to meet women (and not some broad who sleeps with whoever she meets at the bar that night)? Seems like an awkward age in my life where everyone my age is just sleepin around. Maybe I should look for a women a few years older than me? lol

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With love, from Reddit! Sign up for Reddit Gifts Zero-Credit Post Cards exchange by October 1st to get matched!

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It's been a year since I've been divorced and I still feel empty inside. I really miss seeing my 3 year old daughter every day and it hurts to see my ex wife, who definately isn't the person I married. I've tried to keep busy since then, but it still is a horrible feeling to come home to an empty house. I know half this community will say get a hooker lol, but in all seriousness, how did you guys get over the hurt and how long did it take?

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I know the 1 year mark is not really significant, but what is your thought process once you’ve been dating someone for a year? Does the warm and fuzzy wear off? Do you keep things going if you don’t see a future?

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I'm a girl and I feel so scared when I see one of my ex boyfriend's close friends because I know he's told them how my body parts smell or even taste like when we were still together (friends themselves admitted so I blocked them). It has scarred me for life.

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Large Marge Sent Me
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I am about to do the same and I am absolutely terrified but I know it will be healthy for me. I wanted to see how many of you have pushed through your fears for the sake of growth.

I am going to leave a very fun living set up, because I have no more room for growth there, just drunken antics. (Fun, but not productive.) I am going to spend several months in another country working remotely from my laptop, pursue a healthier lifestyle, and sacrifice some short term pleasures for long term success. I have allowed myself to become too comfortable and I feel it's time to find my balls and focus up in life.

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Anyone know a real manly, woodsy, leathery, musky and yet elegant cologne to try? The kind you’d picture on a lumberjack. I would consider mixing colognes too.

Huge bonus if its not one that’s used by everyone

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What song or songs do you listen to when you feel down, worthless, like you can't go on? How did you discover it? How does it make you feel better?

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I usually go work out or punch a wall but I’ve already broke a whole on mine so I don’t wanna do more damage. I usually punch stuff and wouldn’t mind if I broke a hand right now tbh.

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Just as the title says. I have no idea what to do with it

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I am in an argument with someone right now who is gaslighting people claiming that people are not bullied or shamed for having a small penis, especially since 'they never actually see the other person's penis'. Does this experience line up with your? If it doesn't, how is it different?

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