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Oh you have to go there sometime. Especially go through different places like Borama, Berbere, and Las Geel, where there's parietal art.

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I know I definitely want to go. My mom’s from Burao so it takes forever to drag her out but I do definitely wanna see Berbera beach tbh.

Did you do school over there too?

Yeah. 4 different schools 😂 + full time dugsi. And Arabic tutors on the weekends.

Life was night and day from here. I swear my siblings and I (the older ones) were guinea pigs for my parents parenting experiment. My younger siblings will now sail peacefully through life after us.

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Sis you’re out here fluent in Somali, English, and Arabic? I’m so jealous of you!

But shoutout to your younger siblings taking full advantage 😂

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I got off Muzmatch for this exact reason actually. It was draining to constantly have to be the one leading the conversation. I would ask a question and they would answer it with absolutely no follow up. When I stopped responding though they would say “where have you been?”

I get your frustration but just keep trucking along until you find someone who’s social I guess!

I would like to gain some independence. Just be able to do my own thing for awhile and live on my own. Not that I don’t mind getting married before living on my own but it’s just a minor personal preference.

I also wanna travel a little more, cross some things off my bucket list, get more fit, and work on mastering Arabic.

I got ghosted but I knew his cousin who told me this was his excuse: “She’s wifey material but I don’t want to settle down right now” lol his cousin said I dodged a bullet there

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5 points · 19 hours ago

You did dodge a bullet. He sounds like a coward.

5 points · 19 hours ago

Welcome to the struggle, buddy. Maybe try other matrimonial sites?

13 points · 1 day ago

I would talk to someone (professional) about this issue because you are right, it’s really unhealthy to obsess over this.

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5 points · 1 day ago

Second this notion, OP. If it’s honestly stressing you out and ruining your entire day you should seek some counseling.

Does counseling really work?

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1 point · 1 day ago

I agree with /u/takeflight61, it helps to speak to someone qualified who can put things in perspective for you.

I’ve never needed therapy so I can’t speak from personal experience but it never hurts to try. (:

14 points · 1 day ago

I’m Somali and I know there’s a couple other Somalis on this sub but most of the users do seem Desi (not that that’s a bad thing).

2 points · 1 day ago

You’re completely justified in wanting what you want in a person but using the word “purity” always creeped me out.

2 points · 3 days ago

Thank you!! Someone finally gets it lol. The perfect thing the writers did was show Barry bonding with Joe being completely different than his bond with Henry. You never felt like they had the same roles in Barry’s life.

Also Joe is a spectacular parent to his own kids and to Cisco/Caitlin as well. He’s always there for them even when Caitlin tried to kill him as Killer Frost.

Also he’s a phenomenal actor and the most consistent character on the show. It wouldn’t be Flash without him (:

3 points · 3 days ago

Y’all are sleeping on Joe West.

This is from the opposite perspective. I am the SO that has low self esteem/anxiety/depression. My SO doesn't hold it against me when I can't get out of bed. He tells me that he's proud of me when I make an effort to do things. He helps with the laundry, cooking, and other chores that are usually mine. He's patient with me. And he tells me how much he appreciates it when I do do my chores. All this helps a lot and makes me feel less guilty about the battles I face.

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2 points · 3 days ago

You shouldn’t feel guilty at all! You snagged a great guy and are beating the crap out of all your struggles. Keep it up!!

12 points · 4 days ago

I saw a shirt one time that said, "Not today death, not today."

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2 points · 3 days ago

What do we say to the god of death?

195 points · 5 days ago

We met. She said “you’re very handsome”. Now we are married.

I try not to think about it too much, as I seem to have wandered into some strange alternate reality that will crumble if scrutinized too closely.

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7 points · 4 days ago

What do you mean?

Facts. Except the first season. First season of Legend of Korra is one of the best animated experiences to have graced tv.

Right behind Jimmy Neutron/Timmy Turner power hour

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1 point · 6 days ago

Right behind Jimmy Neutron/Timmy Turner power hour

Whoa now, let’s not get too crazy lol. But yeah, I wasn’t a fan of any of the seasons tbh but s1 was better than the other seasons.

Facts, LoK taught me that sometimes asking for more can be dangerous. The 2nd season sucked. 3rd season was actually not that bad in all honesty, but that’s because the villains were waaaaaayyyyyyy more interesting than Korra and her group. Like when the guy started flying oh man that was awesome. Never bothered watching the 4th season.,

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1 point · 5 days ago

I think you’ll like s4 tho the main villain is the best villain out of the entire show. Plus you get some throwbacks to the old ATLA gang. The ending is pretty garbage but if you are ever super bored you could check it out.

Honestly who wasn’t more interesting than Korra’s group. Their entire development was either 80% couples drama, 10% I-don’t-trust-what-you’re-saying-oh-wait-you’re-actually-right, and 10% bad jokes.

Naheer was his name I think? He was super interesting but still can’t believe he was the second person to ever fly and it wasn’t Aang. Still a cool villain though.

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2 points · 6 days ago

He said there’s not many not that there aren’t any at all.

Yeah that's why we didn't go nuts and throw her out. Me and one of my brothers suffer from depression. So our family is more supportive hence why it happened so often, we knew she wasn't well and tried to help. Her side 9f the family were known for violence and sexual assault,I have no doubt something had happened to her at some point, but sadly most of this wasn't found out until they broke up and the people that knew who felt more at ease telling secrets. Do hope she's better these days

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2 points · 6 days ago

How are you doing now with your depression? Better these days as well?

Much better, been on meds for just over 3 years and have worked wonders. So much more stable. Still get some bad days but cope with them better now knowing it will pass and will feel better. Nice to be able to look forward to getting up in the morning

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1 point · 6 days ago

Makes me super happy to hear! I don’t have depression so don’t know the struggle but I’m sure it wasn’t easy to overcome.

Glad you’re looking forward to everyday (:

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4 points · 9 days ago

As long as he’s not sloppy I don’t mind. I would prefer someone who exercises just to be healthy and set a good standard for our children but I’m not even a major health nut myself so can’t be a hypocrite.

5 points · 9 days ago

Worst fear: Person not who they say they are, fall out of love, cheating, not compatible

Biggest hopes: best friends, similar interests, are each other’s number one fans

I don’t understand what the comment means?

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1 point · 9 days ago

Not sure if being serious or not.

9 points · 13 days ago

Yes, but I got a response! He’s at work and plans on discussing it with his father. He’ll keep me posted. I’ll pass info along!

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2 points · 13 days ago

Please do!

2 points · 12 days ago

Keeping you posted in that I haven’t heard a damn thing. ☹️

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Thanks for the update! Maybe he’s busy? I’m sure he got a million messages.

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My dad's Muslim. I find a lot of stuff on this sub to be funny but I'm mainly just trying to get a better understanding of the culture so i can joke around with my dad

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8 points · 13 days ago

Good stuff. Welcome to da club.

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5 points · 14 days ago

How do you get the numbers next to your name?

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3 points · 13 days ago

It’s the flair! Right on the sidebar, amigo.

Umm, let me try to explain again. If you take the knife, so the back of the blade is facing the jar, then bring it down so it's positioned as if you were going to slice the jar in half lengthways. At a 90 degree angle not horizontal with the lid. Then bring the knife back and wack it right on the edge of the lid. Does that help?

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Lol they’re being sarcastic.

353 points · 13 days ago · edited 13 days ago

Yeah, plus I want it to grow to a substantial amount before I let him know about it. Putting in enough to project sufficient money for his kid to become a dr without any debt if his kid wishes too when the day comes.

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235 points · 13 days ago

You sound like a wonderful person, I’m so happy you’re with us. (:

I’m sure your friend is gonna be thrilled!

6 points · 15 days ago

I always struggle with this because I think if I had 1 boy 1 girl, I’d want each of them to have a brother and sister. So 4 kids max. But then I feel like what if I have 2 boys? Will I keep trying for a girl? And if I do get a girl I’m back to wanting her to have a sister.

So I don’t think about it anymore lol.

It would be a bit weird to go from never touching a man before to sex the first night. Not ruling it out as a possibility, but I’d probably want to warm up a bit.

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7 points · 20 days ago

Completely agree. Gotta adjust to that huge change lol.

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