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Original PosterScore hidden · 27 minutes ago

But what if lose my job because of it? People have been fired or suspended for not respecting someone's gender, is that acceptable?

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Score hidden · 24 minutes ago

If your work has a policy that states that you have to respect another's persons differences, regardless of what they are, and you refuse? You absolutely should get fired, suspended or otherwise punished for violating that policy.

Original Poster0 points · 1 hour ago

But everything other than XX and XY is rare right? Like only a small percentage. Isn't it easier to just say they're medical anomalies? Like people born with 6 fingers on one hand, we don't teach that humans have 6 fingers, it's an anomaly. And what about those people that are XY but say they're not male they're another ended, is that justifiable?

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Score hidden · 46 minutes ago

It doesn't matter if they are rare or not. They exist. And if they exist, to say that then there are only two identity gender labels that they are allowed to use, does nothing but try to negate that they do in fact exist and they may not fit into the majority description. Why do you get to tell them they aren't a real person because they don't fit into a narrow box you want them to?

The majority of people in the world are heterosexual. That doesn't mean that other sexualities out there don't exist and should be ignored and that everyone should just be happy saying they are what the majority are.

The majority of people in the world are Asian, but that doesn't mean that other races don't exist and shouldn't be able to acknowledge the fact that they exist.

The majority of people in the world identify as Christian, does that mean that other religions (or lack thereof) are just "anomalies" and shouldn't be awknowledged?

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5 points · 1 hour ago

I passed out and gave myself a concussion when I first saw the blood. Which was really embarrassing because it wasn't like I wasn't prepared that it would likely happen soon nor did I have no idea what was happening.

Original Poster3 points · 2 hours ago

Been proven otherwise in the past. He was talking to a girl he met online, saying things he shouldn’t. I accepted his reasonings at the time and moved past it. But what doesn’t he want me to see now?

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Maybe you should actually post this in your OP. Because as it stands up there now? It just makes you sound like a paranoid insecure-for-no-reason mess and makes no sense to any reasonable person why it matters so much to you.

Something like this? Oh, hey, then it makes sense why it bothers you so much.

Original Poster1 point · 2 hours ago

Plus he does it even when he’s not working

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And? It's not like when he stops working his work just magically disappears from the computer, it's still going to be on the computer. And just because there may not be "sensitive" work on there from your point of view, doesn't mean that you should get access to it.

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Your husband doesn't love you. Yes, some people are twisted enough to love someone and still cheat on them. However, that fact and all the rest of the horrible shit in this post make it perfectly clear that your husband is a shit stain who truly doesn't love you.

You deserve better. Get out of this now. Even the streets are likely to be kinder to you than he is.


B) anyone else think that sketch looks like Jonah Hill before he lost weight?

After the liquid has been drained and a tablespoon of butter has been added to the noodles.

Original Poster1 point · 21 hours ago

I’m not judging you but why do you drain the water

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Because I don't like soup.

Score hidden · 21 hours ago

Something tells me if you were to try and stay "friends" with one of your hookups she would say that wasn't allowed and she could because "that's the way she wants it so you have to respect it!".

I have an open relationship with my spouse. What you had sounds completely unhealthy and one-sided. And it sounds completely reasonable to me that now that you are closing your relationship again that you are having a problem with her staying in regular and constant contact someone she recently had a sexual relationship with.

If I'm honest, I don't think your relationship is likely to recover. It was probably the beginning of the end when you tried to open it up in order to "fix" your problems.

Score hidden · 22 hours ago

Maybe you need to in a point blank and blunt way say something along the lines of, "You think we are fine, but we aren't. I am unhappy. I am trying to work with you so that I can be happy in this relationship again. You are ignoring it. That is not "fine". That is the opposite of fine."

Score hidden · 22 hours ago

What is monster munch?

Strong emotions. Both negative ones and positive ones.

It would get boring, but at least it is super healthy. Last thing I ate was lentil tabboughleh. Lentils, garbanzo beans, cherry tomatoes, green peppers, green onions, avocado, feta cheese, tuna and tofu all mixed together

Or maybe butterflies are just hippy moths.

162 points · 23 hours ago

"I swear it totally isn't like other MLM's it's the BEST ONE!!!!!!"

19 points · 1 day ago

The problem with doTerra and other such EO MLMs is that their sellers try and peddle them as miracle cures for everything. They aren't. So, no doTerra isn't useful for anything.

Essential oils on the other hand, some essential oils do have uses. Uses for simple things like helping keep bugs away, helping with acne (though they aren't any better at it then benzo cream is), or helping a person destress just because they like the smell and some smells make some people feel happy/more relaxed

Discuss with your intended on if they want marriage and also go over the "big" successful relationship topics all couples should be in agreement on.

2 points · 1 day ago

To stop my mentally ill biological mother from giving me a male name, my father gave the first "pretty" female name he could think of. Which happened to be the name of one of his ex-girlfriends.

4 points · 1 day ago

There are several food-based MLMs. The ones that come to mind first are Wildtree, Pampered Chef, and Purely Gourmet.

9 points · 1 day ago

That’s annoying

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4 points · 1 day ago

Yeah, that was my first thought to. Like if I saw this in my place, my first thought would be "Oh, great, I'm paying her to waste time doing this and not cleaning instead." Sure it looks cool...but she should be doing something useful with her time.

2 points · 1 day ago

What do you guys think?

I think this isn't really a casual conversation topic and probably belongs in a different sub.

3 points · 2 days ago

Well, at least when they say that their jewelry is "affordable" it's true. That's about the same price of similar styled jewelry I've seen in stores. I mean it's still mostly ugly and I have no idea how anyone selling this stuff could do anything besides end up broke and homeless.

Postings someone’s private information, like the full name and email is not only against this subs rules but the whole site rules.

If you don’t remove it you are going to get banned entirely

2 points · 8 days ago

I considered his core family (mother and sisters) family before we even started dating because I was friends with his sister first. I pretty much started referring to the rest as family once we moved in with each other at 18. We didn't get engaged for another two years (we started dating when I was 16). We already were doing the major holidays with his family and they all welcomed me with open arms.

Though I still often distinguish his family as his family when I speak to other people about them so as not to confuse the hell out of whoever I'm talking to. We've been together for 12 years and married for 6.


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