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A comment where I detailed how my biological mother attempted to drown me when I was a child. It got 7,844 upvotes.

Score hidden · 58 minutes ago

Kinda worrying. Was it in sympathy or because they agreed with your mother?

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Score hidden · 57 minutes ago

It was in an askreddit thread asking people to share their stories of being victims of attempted murder so I’m going with the former.

Honestly it’s not the first time I’ve shared the story on Reddit but it’s the first time it exploded like that.

Original PosterScore hidden · 1 hour ago

I guess that's a big reason. I'm not really sure why else he thinks that I just know when we fight and I tell him he doesnt care about me he says I "care too much" and maybe I should find a guy that's overbearing and never leaves me alone

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Score hidden · 1 hour ago

So, you've already attempted to communicate that you are dissatisfied with your sex life?

Original PosterScore hidden · 1 hour ago

Ohh yes. Weve separated over it. I even cried a few weeks ago laying in bed after sex because it was the first time we'de done it in 9 days and it lasted like 3 minutes. He said "sorry it's just been a while" and I was like "it's ALWAYS been a while so you always last a few minutes and I havnt had a orgasm in like a year!" I officially sound stupid. Idk what answer I'm looking for.

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Score hidden · 1 hour ago

Okay, now I'm going to repeat what others have said. Dump him. He doesn't care about you and there is literally no point being in a relationship with someone who doesn't care.

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I'm a legal assistant. I chose it because I wanted to work within some part of the legal system and I really enjoy being the reason the office runs smoothly and effectively.

Wanting to lose weight. Soda has a lot of empty calories.

33 points · 7 hours ago

I don't know why, but that emoji at the end of each sentence seems to make this even creepier than it already was.

Original Poster18 points · 6 hours ago

It gets worse than that, the person starts talking about making babies and stuff

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11 points · 6 hours ago

Ewwww....was there the same emoji ending each message?

Original PosterScore hidden · 6 hours ago

it just the fact the she did not share me. Idk, in my country kiss on the cheek is kind of a big of a deal but she's quite modern.

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Score hidden · 6 hours ago

Do you expect her to give you a play-by-play of every single interaction she ever has in life?

Original PosterScore hidden · 6 hours ago

True. But it is a pretty significant event

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Score hidden · 6 hours ago

You already admit that you and your girlfriend clearly have different cultural expectations. So, no. It isn't a pretty significant event to her. Tto expect her to detail every thing she does, and every friendly interaction she has with people is controlling.

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170 points · 6 hours ago

Wearing a ring and actually being in a relationship never stopped people from hitting on me, so I don't think it will do what you are hoping it will in the long run. But if it makes you feel better and more comfortable to do so, go ahead.

Score hidden · 6 hours ago

I'd tell them you eloped (which is what this is) and are planning to have a party to celebrate your marriage with everyone at the end of next year.

2 points · 1 day ago

The whole expectation from everyone that I, being a woman, was the one making all the decisions.

I didn’t care about the details, I would have been happy with whatever. But everyone acted like my husband’s opinions and wants had to be checked as “okay” with me.

7 points · 2 days ago

I had a medicated delivery so I can't answer the first part. But as to your second question. Part of the reason my induction took so long to actually work was because they didn't let me move/walk around in the beginning because they wanted the baby to be on the monitor. I was on day three of it when a new nurse walked in and declared enough was enough I was getting up and moving. And that was when things actually started proceeding as they should have. And the whole wanting the baby to be monitored? They had a portable thing for that.

So, I would call ahead and ask about it at your place to see what they say. I didn't, and wasn't aware it was even something I could insist on (which it turns out I could have) and I wish I had known both those things.

Original Poster1 point · 1 day ago

Thank you for the suggestion! I’ll definitely give them a call in the morning. I feel like when we did our hospital tour that they mentioned they had the portable monitors, but I might be imagining that.

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I don’t remember them saying anything about the monitors during my tour, but I could have totally missed it because I was so impressed with the whole birthing area as a whole and the recovery rooms.

3 points · 1 day ago

My opinion: dump him

3 points · 1 day ago · edited 1 day ago

Yes. I identify as bisexual, but how they started out doesn’t matter to me. What matters is who they are. Edit: and if I’m attracted to them.

3 points · 2 days ago

Even before I determined that receiving oral was out for me sexually, the whole concept just seemed more annoyance than was worth it.

So many more women feel this way about oral sex than I ever imagined.

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The not liking oral part?

When you made the initial report did you receive any kind of paperwork back about it? Like a copy of the report with your name on it or that kind of thing? Basically anything that could be used to prove that you had custody of the cat at the time this happened.

-4 points · 2 days ago

I don't know what legal avenues I can take other than declaring him an emotional support dog

Unless that dog is trained to do a specific task as a service animal, you're landlord doesn't have to allow it. Emotional support animal =/= service animal so trying that route isn't going to work.

The Five People You Meet in Heaven.

Because it's moving and emotional.

3 points · 2 days ago

I was placed into a new foster home three weeks before the end of ninth grade.

He was my neighbor and also we were in the same grade -- which at the tiny school meant that we were in most of the same classes and the same homeroom.

Original Poster1 point · 2 days ago

Aww you were high school sweethearts! That's lovely!

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2 points · 2 days ago

We started dating part way through our Junior year and never stopped.

I don't keep anything of value in my vehicle, I live in a low crime area, and the windows being up isn't going to prevent someone determined to break into my vehicle. Plus, my car is push to start and it's harder to steal if they want the actual car itself. Plus insurance.

5 points · 2 days ago

If you can’t even bring up something as simple as this with your fiancée how do you think you’ll be able to bring up the tough stuff?

16 points · 2 days ago · edited 2 days ago

You don't have to continue a relationship with him you know. Yes, I get he's your brother and family, but if he can't be respectful towards you or your partner I wouldn't expect him to be respectful to any children you have in your life (whether those you foster or those who you have) and you don't have to stand to have that kind of person around your family (as in you, your fiance, and any children).

Edit: Corrected a horrendous spelling error.

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3 points · 2 days ago

No, my partner does not blame me for the actions of other people because he is a decent person.

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