First of all, uncut here. And let me be frank, I enjoy everything physically just fine, I don’t look down and get sad at all. I like my nerve endings etc.
However, in my experience, due to the common circumcision in the US, many women simply think that’s how it’s supposed to look. Due to this, I personally feel that I’ve experienced a lack of mainly oral sex. My wife has go far to say: “It just looks weird uncut, it’s not appealing at all.” Now obviously, this could just be me, but with a quick poll from her friends (and finding out I’m the only uncut in a group of 10), they all agree, it kills the mood.
When we were first pregnant, and the gender was still unknown my wife stated that if we had a boy she would want circumcision. I objected for multiple reasons: 1. You want a boy to look like dad, as it helps with confusion. 2. Nerve endings, etc. 3. It’s only popular in Muslim countries and the US.
She countered with: “You would want your son to get head right?”
Where there it was. The reason oral sex had stopped on her end. She couldn’t get over the stigmatism. Doesn’t matter how clean, freshly showered, darkness levels, nothing.
So in short, I wish I was circumcised, at least then I’d feel normal.
As a woman in the US I am appalled by your wife’s behavior.
My husband is natural an I wouldn’t have it any other way. I prefer giving him blow jobs because of the foreskin and how I don’t have to slobber all over and make such a mess. I prefer sex with him than any other partner because of the feel of his strokes because of his foreskin. This is what I’m referring to. I once saw a site with GIFs of porn from circumcised and uncircumcised men that backed it up, but that was 5-10 years ago and I cannot seem to find it again.
If you have a boy, don’t get him circumcised just because your wife can’t handle a natural penis. Trends in the US are changing and he’ll find someone willing to go down on him.
It’s more natural. That’s the way nature intended it so of course it’s going to be better for sex
But that can change over time. I’m having my son uncut and that’s final. If he wants to cut it when he’s 18 so be it. It’s his body