A freind of mine go out never planning to spend any of her own money on drinks at the bar or club. Instead, she count on her feminine wiles to convince guys to shell out for their libations. She take the opportunity of a guy buying a drink for her to begin to get to know him, but sometimes she take that drink, flirt a little and move on to the next sucker with money to burn.
my father's siblings and their families don't talk to us anymore since my Grandmother's (their mom) passing in 2009, i was told that they were just to busy working and doing their own thing to hang out like we all used to. But on the off chance i would see them i would always be the first and only one to say hi and try and catch up. about the time i was 18 in 2014 (i am currently 22) i was told that the reason they didn't talk to us anymore is that they turned their backs on my grandmother when she was dying and about to lose her house, so my father stepped up and tried to convince his siblings to help save the house and help with the medical bills. They turned their backs on her and my father, so my father ended up buying the house and restored it. When my Grandmother passed my father's siblings tried to "claim their piece of mom's money" even though they didn't do anything for her when she was dying. they refuse to associate with my father, mother sister and me to this day
EDIT 1: holy shit i never expected to see so many similar stories like mine, if i have any advice for anyone reading this who is going through something similar or think they may go through something similar.. It's to get everything in writing, bank statements, medical bills, receipts, even a written statement of the family member you are helping stating they are ok with the terms of the situation you find yourself in.
seems like our family..