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Okay, I took a quick look at your chart and here are some things I noticed.

  1. You have two planets conjunct your ascendant and descendant cusps (Saturn and Moon). Moon conjunct the 1st house in rulership means you are naturally very maternal, loving, protective and attached to people in general. There is a sense of love for humanity and especially those within your home life. Saturn on the descendant indiates that you desire (and are promised) a long, committed partnership but Saturn can be limiting so many people with Saturn in the 7th (using the 5 degree rule, I am reading this as a 7th house Saturn) don't find their true marital partner until during/after their Saturn return.
  2. Moon opposed Saturn, this is a very critical placement. Your moon is in the 1st so it's what everyone sees and that can have some positives and negatives; on a positive note, you are not reserved in your love for others but negatively, it can be a very very vulnerable placement. The goal is to balance critical, limiting and resourceful Saturn and emotional, impulsive, and eager Moon. Moon Cancer people can have a natural inclination to manipulate people emotionally because they can do so effortlessly, with Saturn opposing, you may be more prone to this kind of behavior as a way to seek control.
  3. Chiron is conjunct your moon in the angular 1st, making you feel even more vulnerable. You feel that everyone can see your flaws and your deepest wounds. This simply isn't true unless you choose to do so. Cancer as the crab can be very good at using their shell but they can lack consistency if their too emotionally strained.
  4. Your North Node is in Libra in the 7th which is indicative of your desire to find love. It is your life path to meet a partner you can share experiences with but also learn to be more present in your relationships with others in peaceful and supportive partnerships.
  5. You have Sun and Mercury in the 3rd in Virgo. You really are quick and a whip and you likely have a voracious mind that loves to soak up knowledge. One thing to be cognizant of is going towards your natural inclination for attraction (Mars in Gemini in the 11th). So you may find yourself dating people who are also quite smart (you need this in a relationship, you cannot deal with someone that is unable to keep up with you intellectually) but you may find a pitfall when partners who are flaky, shallow, unmotivated, callous, gossiping and generally sort of laissez faire in personality. Ultimately, your partner will be much more Saturn in Capricorn.
  6. Venus square Mars is further implying the dynamic I stated above. Sometimes there is a disconnect between what turns you on and what has staying power.
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Original Poster2 points · 15 days ago

Thank you so much for this; this is very insightful. It's interesting that you see the vulnerability in my chart. I've only ever told one person that vulnerability is my biggest fear. I hate it and avoid it at all costs.. in which leads to me being emotionally manipulative for sure when I feel like it might lead to that. Wow.

Aww, well thank you very much. It's interesting because the way you express love may not be the most traditional and expressive manner but you really can be quite warm and affectionate with Jupiter in Leo in the 1st. I think the key for you is that someone has to get to the point where they feel very much like family or a karmic connection in order for you to let down those walls a bit. Also, Jupiter can represent the husband. I have no doubt he will be quite good to you in the areas you internally struggle with (if you are so inclined to be with a male. :P).

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Original Poster1 point · 15 days ago

I guess my last question is this: you said "Saturn on the descendant indicates that you desire (and are promised) a long, committed partnership but Saturn can be limiting so many people with Saturn in the 7th (using the 5 degree rule, I am reading this as a 7th house Saturn) don't find their true marital partner until during/after their Saturn return."

What does this mean? When does Saturn return?

To be honest, I have always idealized love and wanted to find true love/my soulmate, but I don't reveal that to others very often because I feel like it comes off as weakness.

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114 points · 1 month ago

Everyone is asking WHEN is the ban? But nobody asks WHY IS THE BAN?

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29 points · 1 month ago

or how is the ban?

This is one slow ass balancing.

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Relish it, friend.

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I dont wanna go now. I'm scared. Help me

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is ok

Snap ya fingers! Do ya step! You can do it all by yo' self! Let me see you do it! Ay!

the amount of shitposting today is so beautiful

This is ew on so many levels it actually made me laugh.

11 points · 4 months ago

UO's server down fights were epic. They'd have to take the servers offline for ~15 minutes for maintenance, and for about an hour before that they'd stop saving game data. So everyone would grab their best gear and have an all out battle royale in the Brit GY.

Man, I miss that game. You had to grind if you wanted to grandmaster a skill, but a good player could take down an average player even with a brand new character.

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If you want to put on some nostalgia goggles, there's a freeshard for t2a called UO Second Age you should check out.

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Thats exactly how I feel. My heart feels heavy. I don't want to move. I resign myself because I don't want to bother others about it.

I understand how you feel if you want to talk.

Ugh, me for sure. Virgo sun and Cancer moon.

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